Amanda: 34w1d pregnant. Nauseated frequently. Sciatica frequently. Occasional migraines. Can't bend over or do heavy lifting. In high spirits. I drink too much Star Bucks, and shop more than ever before. Both habits that I will need to curtail when baby comes. One U/S has shown this is a girl, and thats what we say it is, but we recently discussed where we are on names if we find out later they were wrong and its a boy. At work, I have been certified in my supervisor position and am working on some big 2017 projects. I am trying to figure out how to best allow these projects to continue while I am on maternity leave. Its a different position to be in than my previous two maternity leaves where I was perfectly fine to just walk away from my daily work duties, knowing I was replaceable. Its a nice change, but also a challenge.
Benjamin: 5 years old (zero months) old. He is experiencing some major difficulties at the moment, both behaviorally (aggression, difficulty expressing his feelings at daycare) and phyisically (GI issues). I generally do not want to be a stay at home mom.. but it would be nice to be able to take a week or two off and just focus on him, unfortunately that is not an option right now, so we try to figure out different things to tweak in the context of our day to day life to help him out (most recently eliminating violence from his play, including things that seem innocuous but are actually about battle like Battleship, and limiting screen time more). He also can be incredibly sweet and he is so intelligent. He loves to play strategy games like Chess, he loves to learn about history and science. This morning in the car he was telling me about how blood cells work. I told him that his Grandpa K studies such things, how your body works when you are running around. Ben said that Grandpa should watch the Magic School Bus if he gets confused. We still need to have his birthday party, but I feel like his behavior needs to improve a bit first.
Felicity: 2y,4m old. She wants to be so independent. She puts on her own shoes, gets dressed, has strong opinions about what to wear, wants to get in the carseat herself, wants to open the baby gate herself, wants to pour her own food when we will let her, butter her own toast (and put it in the toaster to begin with), etc. She also changes her mind ever 10 seconds, which is the typical two year old. "I want apple juice" .."NO I NO WANT APPLE JUICE" cue the tears. She is very emotional. She likes playing with baby dolls, wrapping them up, pushing them around in strollers, pretending to feed them. She still uses a pacifier. Her version of the word pacifier sounds like "water". If you ask her to clarify it, it comes out 'wa-ter-wa-ter". She also likes to do whatever her big brother is doing, or to wreck what he is doing, or to steal his Eevee. She unfortunately likes to get our attention by putting things she know dont go in her mouth, like game pieces, in her mouth. She loves apple juice, blankets, and her bunk bed. She is running, climbing and jumping now and grows more everyday.
Tuesday, January 24, 2017
Monday, January 2, 2017
New Years MEMEs
For some unknown reason I skipped these posts at the end of 2015. I am kind of sad about that now, but I must not have been in a very reflective mood last year. This year I am a day or two late, it has been a rocky start to the new year. Aaron and I both had a rotten cold the past three days. Luckily though our families helped us through and we are both on the up swing.
Exercise #1
1. What did you do in 2014 that you'd never done before? Became a supervisor.
2. Did you keep your new years' resolutions, and will you make more for next year? My goal was to simplify and organize. I made progress.. but its a constant battle.
3. Did anyone close to you give birth? Ben Ben became a father, and some of my cousins.
4. Did anyone close to you die? Grim dog.
5. What countries did you spend time in this year? Just America.
6. What would you like to have in 2017 that you lacked in 2016? My life is pretty damned good. My biggest wishes are for other people.
7. What dates from 2016 will remain etched upon your memory, and why? June 10th, date of my FET.
8. What was your biggest achievement of the year? Becoming supervisor
9. What was your biggest failure? Not recording it! LOL... bad with pictures, journaling, blogging
10. Did you suffer any serious injury or illness? Nope!
11. What was the best thing you bought? A new van
12. Whose behavior merited celebration?
13. Whose behavior made you appalled and/or depressed? The American Electorate
14. Where did most of your money go? Daycare, mortgage, eating
15. What did you get really, really, really excited about? MFIP contracts. Thanksgiving trip to Des Moines.
16. What song will always remind you of 2016? Shut up and Dance
17. Compared to this time last year, are you:
a) happier or sadder? happier
b) thinner or fatter? fatter (mostly due to pregnancy!!)
c) richer or poorer? richer
18. What do you wish you'd done more of? being mindful
19. What do you wish you'd done less of? facebooking?
20. How did you spend Christmas? In Duluth - Santa came to our house, then we went to my parents for the day. ILs came up and spent it with us as well. There was a Christmas Day Blizzard, but everyone made it to the celebration and home safely.
21. Did you fall in love in 2016? I stayed in love.
22. What are the main websites you used? Facebook, What to Expect, Amazon
23. Did you write anything worth reading this year? No, I hardly wrote anything.
24. What was your favorite TV program? Supernatural, various cooking competition shows, Voyaguer
25. Do you hate anyone now that you didn't hate this time last year? I try not to hate people in general, but Donald Trump comes to mind.
26. What was the best book you read? I mostly just read book club books. I enjoyed Book 2 of the Raven Cycle, and I enjoyed Etta and Otto and Russel and James
27. What was your greatest musical discovery? Piano Puzzlers on MPR
28. What did you want and get? A promotion, a pregnancy
29. What did you want and not get? A living niece/nephew
30. What was your favorite film of this year? I dont even know what movies came out this year or what I saw. Oh! I know! Magical Beasts and Where to Find them!
31. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you? 32. I have no idea what I did.
32. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying? If Trump hadn't won the election. If we had our first female president about to be sworn in.
33. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2016? I discovered Lularoe!!
34. What kept you sane? The help and support of my family and friends.
35. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most? David Tenant, Dean Winchester
36. What political issue stirred you the most? The election. Black lives matter.
37. Who did you miss? My graduate school friends
38. Who was the best new person you met?
39. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2016? We don't live in the idealistic world I had come to feel like we did.
40. What word or phrase sums up this year? Waiting
1 hour ago... I was helping get the kids ready for bed
1 day ago... I was nursing a migraine, trying to make it through parenting.
1 month ago... Working on MFIP Contracts
1 year ago... Preparing for a trip to St Louis for Christmas
1 decade ago... I was in the middle of my first year of grad school.
1 lifetime ago... I think I was in revolutionary in Russia
5 minutes ago... Talking to Aaron, trying to remember what movies we had seen this year
5 hours ago... I was cleaning out under the sink (new years ... motivation)
5 days ago... Hosting a holiday party at work. Pizza Luce!
5 months ago... awaiting anxiously news of if this pregnancy would work out
5 years ago... I was massively pregnant with Benjamin, waiting to go into labor!!
JANUARY: On December 22nd we left Duluth MN and drove the 10 hrs down to St Louis MO to visit my ILs. We arrived back home on Saturday (Jan 2nd). Here are some highlights from the trip
FEBRUARY: Ben... his personality. How do I describe it? The easiest way I think is - he likes the bad guy.
MARCH: On Friday night we took Ben to his first Hockey game, or, at least he first one he has any chance of remembering at all.
APRIL: IFelicity is asserting her independence these last few days. She want's to do everything herself.
MAY: After lingering cold, yesterday a new weather pattern moved in and we suddenly have summer temperatures (too warm for my liking!). I love being able to open the windows though, and seeing all the summer close out there.
JUNE: (NO POSTS)
JULY:Yeah... so it has been two months since I posted. Oops!
In my defense, I have moved to some other versions of keeping track of our lives - mainly a "line a day" journal in which I keep one line as often as possible for myself, Ben, and Felicity. But I did not mean to abandon my blog.
Exercise #1
1. What did you do in 2014 that you'd never done before? Became a supervisor.
2. Did you keep your new years' resolutions, and will you make more for next year? My goal was to simplify and organize. I made progress.. but its a constant battle.
3. Did anyone close to you give birth? Ben Ben became a father, and some of my cousins.
4. Did anyone close to you die? Grim dog.
5. What countries did you spend time in this year? Just America.
6. What would you like to have in 2017 that you lacked in 2016? My life is pretty damned good. My biggest wishes are for other people.
7. What dates from 2016 will remain etched upon your memory, and why? June 10th, date of my FET.
8. What was your biggest achievement of the year? Becoming supervisor
9. What was your biggest failure? Not recording it! LOL... bad with pictures, journaling, blogging
10. Did you suffer any serious injury or illness? Nope!
11. What was the best thing you bought? A new van
12. Whose behavior merited celebration?
13. Whose behavior made you appalled and/or depressed? The American Electorate
14. Where did most of your money go? Daycare, mortgage, eating
15. What did you get really, really, really excited about? MFIP contracts. Thanksgiving trip to Des Moines.
16. What song will always remind you of 2016? Shut up and Dance
17. Compared to this time last year, are you:
a) happier or sadder? happier
b) thinner or fatter? fatter (mostly due to pregnancy!!)
c) richer or poorer? richer
18. What do you wish you'd done more of? being mindful
19. What do you wish you'd done less of? facebooking?
20. How did you spend Christmas? In Duluth - Santa came to our house, then we went to my parents for the day. ILs came up and spent it with us as well. There was a Christmas Day Blizzard, but everyone made it to the celebration and home safely.
21. Did you fall in love in 2016? I stayed in love.
22. What are the main websites you used? Facebook, What to Expect, Amazon
23. Did you write anything worth reading this year? No, I hardly wrote anything.
24. What was your favorite TV program? Supernatural, various cooking competition shows, Voyaguer
25. Do you hate anyone now that you didn't hate this time last year? I try not to hate people in general, but Donald Trump comes to mind.
26. What was the best book you read? I mostly just read book club books. I enjoyed Book 2 of the Raven Cycle, and I enjoyed Etta and Otto and Russel and James
27. What was your greatest musical discovery? Piano Puzzlers on MPR
28. What did you want and get? A promotion, a pregnancy
29. What did you want and not get? A living niece/nephew
30. What was your favorite film of this year? I dont even know what movies came out this year or what I saw. Oh! I know! Magical Beasts and Where to Find them!
31. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you? 32. I have no idea what I did.
32. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying? If Trump hadn't won the election. If we had our first female president about to be sworn in.
33. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2016? I discovered Lularoe!!
34. What kept you sane? The help and support of my family and friends.
35. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most? David Tenant, Dean Winchester
36. What political issue stirred you the most? The election. Black lives matter.
37. Who did you miss? My graduate school friends
38. Who was the best new person you met?
39. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2016? We don't live in the idealistic world I had come to feel like we did.
40. What word or phrase sums up this year? Waiting
Exercise #2
1 minute ago... I was watching watching The Crown1 hour ago... I was helping get the kids ready for bed
1 day ago... I was nursing a migraine, trying to make it through parenting.
1 month ago... Working on MFIP Contracts
1 year ago... Preparing for a trip to St Louis for Christmas
1 decade ago... I was in the middle of my first year of grad school.
1 lifetime ago... I think I was in revolutionary in Russia
5 minutes ago... Talking to Aaron, trying to remember what movies we had seen this year
5 hours ago... I was cleaning out under the sink (new years ... motivation)
5 days ago... Hosting a holiday party at work. Pizza Luce!
5 months ago... awaiting anxiously news of if this pregnancy would work out
5 years ago... I was massively pregnant with Benjamin, waiting to go into labor!!
Exercise #3
The rule is simply: Post the first line of each month of my blog from the last year.JANUARY: On December 22nd we left Duluth MN and drove the 10 hrs down to St Louis MO to visit my ILs. We arrived back home on Saturday (Jan 2nd). Here are some highlights from the trip
FEBRUARY: Ben... his personality. How do I describe it? The easiest way I think is - he likes the bad guy.
MARCH: On Friday night we took Ben to his first Hockey game, or, at least he first one he has any chance of remembering at all.
APRIL: IFelicity is asserting her independence these last few days. She want's to do everything herself.
MAY: After lingering cold, yesterday a new weather pattern moved in and we suddenly have summer temperatures (too warm for my liking!). I love being able to open the windows though, and seeing all the summer close out there.
JUNE: (NO POSTS)
JULY:Yeah... so it has been two months since I posted. Oops!
In my defense, I have moved to some other versions of keeping track of our lives - mainly a "line a day" journal in which I keep one line as often as possible for myself, Ben, and Felicity. But I did not mean to abandon my blog.
AUGUST - December - NO POSTS
Pregnancy #3
I am 31 weeks pregnant! Its a girl. We are elated. It has been a rocky journey! We had two frozen embryos left from when we struggled to get pregnant with Ben, so we set up to do a Frozen Embryo Transfer (FET) starting way back in February. First I had to get my thyroid back under control, then in April I was able to start the 8 weeks of meds required to ramp up for a FET. In early June I traveled to Columbus OH for the transfer (easier to take me to the embryos then vica versa). Only one of the embryos survived thaw, and we transferred that on June 10th. 10 days later, when we started to try to figure out if the transfer worked, my numbers were not what the doctor hoped for or expected, and they did not rise as quickly as "normal", but we wanted to be sure it was not viable before stopping meds so I kept having Aaron jab me with needles (9 shots a week) and we waited. We had our first U/S in early July, and again it was not clear news, not what the doctor hoped to see, and more waiting. Then, the middle of July we were able to have our second U/S and finally, some definitively good news! There was a baby in there, with a strong heartbeat! Such a big change of momentum. I was measuring a FULL WEEK behind with no explanation (given they knew the exact timing of everything), but besides that unaccounted for week, it all looked good, and so it has all kept looking good since then. My due date is March 5th (after they moved it a week).
This has been a rough pregnancy symptom wise as well! I had a lot of nausea and shortness of breath at the beginning and it was hard to know that it might be just the meds and not a viable pregnancy causing it, that was a huge psychological thing for me. The nausea stuck around until very recently and I feel sure it will come back. I assumed that because I was so nauseated, it must be a boy, because I had been nauseated with Ben but not Felicity. Then I also started getting migraines... which was something I had with Felicity and not Ben. In the end, our October anatomy scan showed a healthy, stubborn little girl who would NOT show us her face for anything (we went back in November and got a picture of her face)
Overall, I really enjoy being pregnant even if I am exhausted, short of breath, nauseated, and getting occasional migraines. Just in the past few days she has gotten big enough in there that I am starting to feel every move, one of my favorite phases of pregnancy!
This has been a rough pregnancy symptom wise as well! I had a lot of nausea and shortness of breath at the beginning and it was hard to know that it might be just the meds and not a viable pregnancy causing it, that was a huge psychological thing for me. The nausea stuck around until very recently and I feel sure it will come back. I assumed that because I was so nauseated, it must be a boy, because I had been nauseated with Ben but not Felicity. Then I also started getting migraines... which was something I had with Felicity and not Ben. In the end, our October anatomy scan showed a healthy, stubborn little girl who would NOT show us her face for anything (we went back in November and got a picture of her face)
Overall, I really enjoy being pregnant even if I am exhausted, short of breath, nauseated, and getting occasional migraines. Just in the past few days she has gotten big enough in there that I am starting to feel every move, one of my favorite phases of pregnancy!
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